Self-sabotage check
Many people unconsciously hold themselves back – through procrastination, overly critical self-talk, or comparing themselves to others. This short Self-sabotage test This helps you recognize patterns and see more clearly where you can start. You can find more background information and strategies here:
Understanding and resolving self-sabotage.
How to use the self-sabotage test: For each statement, choose the option that best applies to you. You'll immediately receive a personalized assessment – plus concrete next steps. Optionally, you can have your results sent to you via email.
Self-sabotage test
For each statement, choose the option that **most** applies to you.
Your result – Individual evaluation
Personal Next Steps & Instructions 💡
Your 3 most important sabotage patterns (To get started)
Note: Childhood imprints (Your Inner Child)
- Performance ≠ Love: Practice unconditional self-compassion (2 sentences daily; e.g., "I am enough – even without achievement.").
- Eliminate fear of making mistakes: Plan mini-experiments where failure is expected – and celebrate the learning points.
- Balancing the desire to please: Set one clear mini-limit per week (a friendly “no” with an alternative suggestion).
- Show needs: Openly share one small need per day (e.g., “I need 30 minutes of focus time.”).
- Success without guilt: List the real reasons for your success (preparation, perseverance, courage) – not luck/chance.